Hasty decisions based on a single string of incidents is never a wise decision. If however this has been an ongoing avalanche of bad nights that is compromising your happiness, and personal tolerance for your fellow man, perhaps the time for a change. I had friends in high school that worked for Applebees and were perpetually miserable for it.

My advice:

Hating your job tends to unfortunately be the status quo for too many people. Disregard those particular details from a night that may just be a worst case scenario. Under most circumstances I would say to drop what is more than likely a dead end job and go out in search of something you enjoy or have some passion for.

The relevance of the baby girl is distressing, solely based on the current economic climate in the US. While your fiance may be able to support you both, money can easily affect even the strongest of relationships and their is no guarantee you will find a job right away.

Bottom Line - Tolerate your job for the moment, as bad as it may be. Treat your free time as a second job where you are in fact looking actively for a new job. When you have something secure to go to, drop Applebees.

Best of luck.

Sounds like a tough time......i say wait it out a bit........find another job first THEN quit.....its always good to be working than depend on ur partner....i dont know thats just how i feel but if ur not pressed for money, then its not a problem if u wanna leave this job...just see how u feel in the morning hun...sleep it off

I would start looking for another job before quiting this one. it could be a long time before you can get another job if you just up and quit. and like you said, it was a bad night. tomorrow might be better. keep your head up!

OH man I was there that was really funny!! Haha!! Yeah I would miss the fun I had with you being all pissed off but that job sucks!!

Get off your ***, Go to college, get a degree, and start a real career!