Can a person who has prior felonies have a productive and successful career?
I have been dating this guy for nearly two years. He is very sweet we connect in so many ways that I never thought could be possible. He is about 11 years older than I am in age I couldn't fathom seeing how we would relate to one another but we did. I am a 20 year old college student who has many goals and priorities set before her and I plain on accomplishing every one of them in time. Meeting this man has given me a whole new perspective on how relationships work I have never been able to open up the way I do with him to anyone. In many cases he has felt the same way our bond is very emotional and strong and I know that I love him very much when I think of him I know I want to spend my future with him. Here is the problem recently he revealed to me that he has had issues and problems with the law in earlier years FELONIES. When he told me this I felt the world spinning like walls were caving in on me, I mean I can deal with our big age difference because I am quite mature but "Felonies" plural!! I really love this guy I care for him deeply but I am starting to think about my future, how can this work out? I have always been a very optimistic person but when I ponder on my future graduation, career, marriage and children I get a depressed feeling because I know criminal records follow you throughout life. A part of me believes it is up to the individual, how determined they are to change there lives and become successful but is it? Does that even matter once the damage to your reputation has been done? I wish I knew some success stories of people who have experienced this. I am just confused, I know my future is bright but I am not to sure about my future with him now I am trying so hard to stay positive. What should I do? Thanks in Advance
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Prorkycake |
Well, I don't think anyone can answer this question for you. You fail to mention what kind of felonies, what state these felonies were committed in and how long ago they were committed. Those are all kind of the basic need-to-know information so someone that has been through or knows information can help you. |
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Tass |
I met someone but will not go into detail too much - had a professional career, messed up and ended up in prison. He lost his license to practise but got back on track and has a really good career now. I commend him for turning himself around and his determination to succeed. |
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kapn |
Depends.......what were his felonies for..........more than one.........it appears he didn't learn the first time........to be quite frank............suck it up and move on........sorry.........you don't need any extra baggage ..........and that's what it will be...........just remember ..............a felony is forever........ |
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